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By Rhonda E. Like it or not, infidelity and affairs are part of the fabric of our relationship lives. There are websites like Ashleymadison. Married men are everywhere making themselves available to single women. I call it dating while married or DWM. We all know at least one woman who has dated a married man, or been cheated on. I know more than one. In fact almost every married guy I know and almost every single woman I know has a story. I have several of my own. You can acknowledge it or bury you Positive aspects of dating a married man in the sand, whichever works best, but what is undeniable is that this phenomenon is here to stay.
You can hate me for them, or you can read them and take my offering as both precautionary advice and wise guidance. They call and text you all day, they give you the attention you need and want. Typically unlike real married life. His schedule with you is contingent upon blocks of time becoming available to him that he can explain to her and that she will buy into. For some, that comes easy, for others who have lived on a regimented and predictable time schedule, not so much. You will spend many weekends and nights alone. Most women want a man to be at the house to talk to, feel protected by, plan a future with, repair things, cut the grass, help raise children, go to a movie on a whim and otherwise be present to love.
You will be by yourself. If you get lucky, he will call text,send cards or gifts or drop by for a little while but then he will most certainly be gone again to spend the special day with wife and family. Again this applies to most, not all situations; some have more flexibility than others. Sometimes you see them in their nice cars, great clothes and listen to their sexy loving voice, their remarkable stories and sometimes you find out, he is a whole other person when you get to know him.
Or if and when you ever talk to the wife, you may find he has a host of issues, monetary, anger management, more infidelity cheating on you and hernot a good father, drugs or alcohol abuse, etc. I have seen it and heard it too many times. And ladies, this has nothing to do with you or what you shared, it has everything to do with him trying in that moment to save face and to save his marriage, even if the marriage is on bad terms.
His real concern is his marriage, not you. My friend was incensed! She wanted to remind him that according to his many text messages and s and the call history log, he was the one pursuing her! He was the one calling, texting and wanting time together. This is a reoccurring scene. In that instant, you become the enemy, the obstructer to their security. Either way, you lose. You will be dismayed how abruptly this happens. The epitome of the leaving woman would be Elizabeth Edwards who even on her death bed with incurable cancer, decided it was better to live alone dying of cancer than to live out her months with the man who betrayed her.
Their affair escalated after the baby was born and lasted several years-they were committed to each other and both knew they would end up together. Eventually, they both got divorced at different times from their respective spouses, and immediately got married. They are now living incredibly happy together. I hope that made sense. So yes, it does in fact happen, but Positive aspects of dating a married man is not the norm.
I am certain there are other pros and cons I could list here, but it has been my experience that these are the ones that are most prominent and most talked about when I conduct interviews with people who have gone through this type of relationship, and these are the ones that I have witnessed and felt first hand as I have stumbled through my own situations. The point of it all is to know and understand what you are getting into and to be ready to deal with whatever comes from it. It is what it is, and it will be what it will be. Pain and heartbreak awaits you.
The mountain level highs come with valley level lows and if you can handle it, then it can be perfection in the moment. I advise, if you are dating a married man, keep dating other people and keep your options open despite what you are feeling or you may be setting yourself up for the big let down. Always weigh the pros and cons and decide accordingly. The choice is always yours, as are the consequences. Pros: 1 Married men are fun, attentive and most go the extra mile to keep a smile on your face-they plan strategic outings, they may take you shopping, you get to eat out at nice restaurants and they help you with bills from time to time.
Cons: 1 You are always waiting for that moment, that phone call, the or text, that next opportunity to be together. Share this: Twitter Facebook. Like this: Like Loading Essential reading. This is so right. Thank you for reposting. X Loading Leave a Reply Cancel reply.Positive aspects of dating a married man
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