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This post was contributed by a community member. The views expressed here are the author's own. If you've just posted a profile on one of the dating sites for the first time or for the first time in a long time, you'll be amazed just how many guys will express instant interest in you; unfortunately a high percentage of these guys will be predators, pretenders, and parasites, and they all know that the new girl on the block is naive and easy to deceive. According to Statistic Brainonly one-out-of-five-committed relationships started from online dating. These odds seem pretty low to me and reveal that a lot of people on these sites aren't really looking for a committed relationship at all, but they are merely looking for a hook-up, a diversion, or a sucker to rip off.
Girlfriends, it's up to you to get the blinders off and go into this digital-dating arena armed with the knowledge that a lot of men on these sites aren't who they say they are or who they pretend to be. He tells you everything you want to hear. He says things such as: "I'm looking for a lasting relationship;" "I've never felt this kind of connection before;" "This was fated in the stars;" blah, blah, blah. Trust your gut on this one. If he sounds too good to be true, and seems like your Knight in Shining Armor ready to sweep you off your feet, get a reality check by meeting him sooner than later.
And do remember, it's up to you to rescue you. Stop looking for someone to take care of you, or to clean up your mess, or to get you out of your financial hole.
If you want a good, hardworking, honest guy, then become a person who possesses those traits yourself! A guy with all the right lines could also just be a plain old Player telling you anything you want to hear just to get in your pants and run. He only wants to text and not talk. Odds are that he's married or in a relationship and can't talk or a Player texting many other women at once. These guys can only texts when no one is looking. Picture this: they can just jump out of bed with one woman, run to the bathroom, and shoot off a short text to another one.
Texting is a very dehumanizing way of communicating and makes lying to others an easy thing to do. He lives across the country, but acts like he didn't know that you lived so far away. Commitment-phobics love to do the long-distance dance, because this gives them a built-in reason why you can't see each other too much, and they can control how close you get or don't get. Catfishers, Playersand Scam Artists, also do the long-distance-thing because it allows them to manipulate you and a whole lot of other women at the same time. He's been on the site for years. Something is either big time wrong with him, or he really only wants to play around and not stay around.
This type more often than not is a Player or a hard-core Commitment-phobe. He tells you he isn't looking for anything serious, and you lie to yourself about how you're cool with this, and anyway you tell yourself that once he gets to know you and sees what a great catch you are, he will change his mind. Give up the erroneous thinking that you can fix someone or change them. This guy has made commitment dodging a full-time pastime. He's been talking to you for months, but keeps avoiding meeting you.
He most definitely could be a professional Catfisherand can never meet you because he isn't anything at all like he claims to be or even who he says he is. He could also be a sex addict using you for phone sex. He talks sex talk with you and you haven't even met him. He's showing inappropriate behavior. He's overstepping boundaries, and is either a Player or a pervert. He is really great looking, meets you, but is going away any day on business.
A week later he s you from a foreign country stating how he is in a mess and just needs a little money to come back home to you.
There are many variations on this Scam Artist trick. He can only meet you during the week. Chances are he's already in a relationship or married. Trust your gut.
If something doesn't sound kosher than it isn't. If someone seems too good to be true, then everything he's telling you probably is just a big, fat lie. If a man seems shady, then he is shady. Visit her web site at: grantmeahigherlove.
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