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You might even have vague plans scheduled in the future — like attending a concert or going to a special event together. Still, you remain in dating limbo. If you have sex after the third date, a man is just still thinking that you're enjoying getting to know each other, that you're having sex and fun and that you're just dating. A woman, on the other hand, after she's slept with a man, and certainly after five or six dates, starts to already think they are heading toward an exclusive relationship.
Women How to ask a guy if you re exclusive to get very excited about this possibility. But for a guy, getting exclusive is a big decision. I've seen so many women get themselves into situations with men who won't commit to them but then they're sexually involved and, so, of course, they're starting to attach, and it's not good. In fact, I had one client who was sleeping with a man, and then she asked him for exclusivity, but he said he wasn't ready for that. It's hard for me to say no, but I need to be in an exclusive relationship before I do that. You have a movie playing in your head.
He's got a movie playing in his head. And the thing is, most people don't share their movies. They don't talk about this stuff, and so they've got completely different movies going on and you've got to share your movies and see if you can get in the same movie together. You must start from your own perspective. Say something like, "I am really enjoying getting to know you and I've decided that I don't want to see other men. I really want to take time to get to know you and so I've pulled my profile down and I just want to enjoy dating you and seeing where this goes.
A little silence is a good thing, so just be quiet and create that space for him to come forward and tell you how he's feeling. You want to pay attention to his response. Does he freak out? Does he say, "Wait a minute, I'm not ready to be exclusive, I just want to date. I just thought maybe it was too soon to ask. Whatever his response might be, now you know where you stand on being exclusive, and you can either move forward in a committed relationship, or you can move on and find the right person who will want to be exclusive with you.
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