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After matching with Nicole on an app last fall, we met up for beers in a busy Brooklyn dive.

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A simple, unoriginal concept, sure, but it turned out to be one of those first dates you dream of every time you swipe right on, message, or heart someone. There were laughs, mutual world views, and shared tastes in the arts.

After I cooked dinner to open date two, however, we pretty much made a beeline for my bed. The sex was great, and after knowing Nicole for only a few hours, really, very pleasant thoughts of a long-term future started creeping in. So was Nicole, apparently.

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Just a couple weeks later she brought up commitment, pseudo-nonchalantly, over text. My therapist — who often points out that her responses to me are delineated by the information only I provide her — suggested I consider waiting much longer to have sex with a new partner. She also advised I actually date a new partner for so long that I have an argument with them, first, before seeking sex.

Then, too, I could allow myself to be more vulnerable, feeling safe while in her company, and evening up the score between physical and emotional intimacy with our first sexual encounter. After having the whole Nicole scenario play out almost identically with another woman a mere two months later — only with about double the intensity — I became even more open to the idea of waiting a while for first-time sex.

Sex interviews sounded good to me as well, for physical and economical reasons. So when should we have sex for the first time with a new partner? But that approach only metastasized a ball of conflicted emotions, as the hormones released during and after sex made my body feel as though my soul mate were lying next to me, even if she was nary more than a stranger.

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Marin says a rule of thumb she offers to clients is to hit the pause button when you feel like you want to have sex with someone, until at least the next time you see them. In fact, all you probably did was build anticipation for the event. As far as sex interviews go, Marin is skeptical.

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Any single ladies in the New York City area up for some home-cooked dinner and a heated disagreement? This article was originally published on Aug. By Michael Stahl.

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